
Artist credit: Huriana Kopeke-Te Ao
Dr Karlo Mila is an award-winning poet, writer, mother, activist and researcher. She is the author of three books of poetry, including Dream Fish Floating (2005) which won the Jessie MacKay Best First Book of Poetry at the 2006 Montana New Zealand Book Awards. Her most recent book, Goddess Muscle, was released by Huia Publishers in 2020.
She is of Tongan and Pākehā descent, with ancestral connections to Samoa. Born and raised in Aotearoa, New Zealand, her poetry and professional career has focused on the realities of Pasifika identity, love, life and the politics of relationships. In 2019, Karlo was awarded a MNZM for services to the Pacific community and as a Poet. She was the winner of the CNZ Contemporary Pacific Artist Award in 2016.
Career highlights include representing Tonga at the 2012 Cultural Olympiad event Poetry Parnassus Festival in London, a Fulbright Creative Writing Residency in Hawai’i and reading poetry at the Commonwealth Heads of Government Meeting Peoples Forum in 2018.
During the Covid-19 pandemic Karlo started making poetic meditations. You can listen to these on Insight Timer. A writer across many mediums, her work is widely anthologised in Aotearoa and beyond. Her poetry is taught in schools and universities around New Zealand and in the South Pacific. She runs poetry workshops and is regularly invited to be a guest speaker at events. She performs poetry internationally and nationally.
Karlo is the founder and creator of Mana Moana, an indigenous leadership programme and curated collection of learning experiences based on Pacific language and ancestral knowledge. Karlo is the mother of three boys, and step-mother of two children. She lives in Wellington with her partner and whānau.
Photo credit: Raymond Sagapolutele
What People Are Saying
“I was utterly spellbound by her words, at times punching the air in triumph and at others sobbing into tissues.”
— Rebekah Lyell, NZ Booklovers Review
“Some poetry knows us so intimately, it’s as if the words weren’t just written for us, but about us…”
— Nadine Hura, Spinoff Review of Books
“Reading Mila’s poems helped my bones recollect where they’ve come from.”
— Rhegan Tu’akoi, The Pantograph Punch
“She is the quintessential New Zealand poet. No longer are we just men alone but women in community with our ancestors.”
— Sarah Maindonald, Takahe Magazine Book Review
The Good Wife’s Prayer
(Goddess Muscle, 2020)
Let me be faithful,
first to myself.
Not betray the essence
of who I am
for anybody.
Not husband,
son, father,
not mother
or daughter.
Let me be believe
that being faithful,
first,
to myself,
is the ultimate
gift I can give.
Let me have the courage
to not just live a safe life
or a good life,
but a whole life.
Feel the full range of feelings.
Let the energy
within my body
love what it loves,
attract what it attracts,
repel what it repels.
Let me be free
to be
me
in this moment,
here, right now,
awake
and
fully present.
Let me
feel the wairua
flow
through me
and greet life
in all
of its
unfolding
incarnations.